Heart Holes and the Twin Flames Relationship
The Twin Flames Relationship is not a Romantic Love Relationship first and foremost. It is a Spiritual Growth Experience that has as a Bonus, most of the time a Romantic Love Relationship and Fantastic Love Making. It is usually something that happens to more Evolved Souls that have incarnated many times. It is a Spiritual Experience of personal growth designed to bring Twin Flames into harmony and ultimately leading them into Twin Flame Union and Twin Flame Mission. This is vaguely classified as the Twin Flame Journey, and although it sounds fairly easy, it usually isn’t. So what exactly is this Spiritual Experience of personal growth and how do I do it? Well there is only one way up the Spiritual Ladder and there are no shortcuts, but the process can be sped up by either one or both of the Twins doing their Spiritual Work. Right now you might be saying “Ugh. I don’t want to Work on anything, I just want to date, go out, sleep with her/him, have fun, get married, etc..” I know that especially for those of you that are out there at the Country and Western Song Stage of your Journey where You feel that you just need somebody to Love you NOW… I know you don’t what to hear this. I know you just want to bump into your Jerry McGuire or your Julia Roberts and go on your Fairy Tale Honeymoon with or without Walt Disney, but with all of your family and friends and have an Destination Wedding and live happily ever after. I know you don’t want to hear this but that is not going to happen tomorrow especially if you have met your Twin Flame or you want too. I know that for myself, I had to hear it a number of times before I finally realized that this time consuming Spiritual growth thing that I didn’t want to do would actually be the shortest way to get the Love I wanted. Now not all Twin Flame Experts, Coaches or Philosophers agree upon all the details about Twin Flames and the Twin Flame Journey but most would agree that the Spiritual Growth part starts with Unconditional Self Love. So what is this Unconditional Self Love or Self Love and how do I get it? As I like to keep things simple I will now describe Self Love as “Plugging the Holes in your own Heart.” And Unconditional Self Love can be described as being able to say “I AM OK” with myself for not knowing that I was supposed to plug those holes and I AM forgiving myself for my past mistakes and any I might make in the future and for not being perfect just being my own unique Self… with a SMILE Ok so what do I mean by Holes in our heart?? Let me explain. We all want to be and feel Loved. Right? And in the old 3D way we expected our Romantic partner to come along and fill our Heart up with Love, heaping so much Love into our hearts that we would always know and feel Loved by them. We never thought or even knew about Self Love. We loved them and they Loved us, that’s how it worked, Right? It was an exchange right? And in days gone by a lot of us had that kind of relationship or something similar. But that type of 3D co-dependant Love can be so exhausting for both people involved because you are both filling each others Hearts up with Love but because of the BIG holes in your hearts it becomes a never ending job. That Love just keeps seeping out the Heart holes and after a while both or one or the other just runs out of Love to keep heaping into the others Heart. That’s when the Drama starts because he/she said they Loved us but because we can’t actually feel that Love accumulating due to the heart holes we create DRAMA which is a very 3D thing. Love can not be proven TO SOMEONE ELSE, we can only have it for ourselves, feel it in our Hearts, show it to others, or give it to someone but not unless we actually have all of OUR own Heart Holes securely plugged up and have also taken the time to fill up our own Hearts with the Infinite supply of Love that is available from the Universe. Stay tuned for Part Two next week where I will explain how to plug up your own Heart Holes. For those of you who don’t want to wait You can book a Private Love Coaching Session. Thank you for reading my blog. Please Share. I AM Jenifer and You are an Awesome Twin Flame. ©I AM Jenifer 2016 – Feel free to use my article in whole or part with credit to www.mytwinflamelove.com
The Heart Shaped Cake Pan and Twin Flames
The Heart Shaped Cake Pan and Twin Flames Being a Twin Flame isn’t just about finding some guy to love you and starting a relationship like your parents or your grandparents did. Its not a Walt Disney Fairy Tale movie either. It’s about learning a new way to love and this new way of loving this 5D way of loving, is real love. Its love that you can actually feel and know and have in infinite supply.The 3D type of love relationships that we grew up with; that a lot of us have already experienced some of us more than once; that we see depicted in most movies and magazines etc is not what Twin Flames are all about. I feel that a lot of the separation and the running with Twin Flames is the universe trying to get you to wake up to that fact. Once you grasp that a 5D relationship is nothing like a 3D relationship you quit trying to fit a square peg into a round hole and then you find that it becomes so much easier to maintain a connection with your Twin Flame.So stop with the expectations. Stop thinking that he has to do this and he should do that. Or he owes you this because you did that. Thats not how it is at all. That is so 3D and so exhausting for the man in the relationship. This is not to say that you can’t marry or be in a live-in relationship similar to 3D with your Twin Flame; but that by basing and building your relationship on friendship first then unconditional love followed by freedom, peace, balance and equality between the man and the woman; you are manifesting a 5D Twin Flame love lasting life partner.When you experience this type of love you know you have love. You don’t question it any more. You know that he loves you. It puts an irreplaceable feeling in your heart that love is love. This type of love is something that you get for yourself. You no longer need your Twin Flame to give you love.Try this: ask to be connected to the heavens through the chakras above your head. Ask for light and love from the heavens to pour down through your crown chakra and flow through your entire body grounding you to mother earth below. You are now receiving from above and below. Have these energies meet in your heart chakra and pull your thoughts, attention and intention out of your head (mind) and drop them down to your heart chakra. Now start to intuit through your heart rather than thinking through your mind. If you are already at this stage awesome. Now concentrate on the feeling of the light and love from the heavens being in your entire heart space. Concentrate on this feeling as you appreciate your own awesome beauty and love for yourself and your Twin Flame. As your Twin Flame is meant to come into your heart, being one soul in two bodies or your heart my heart as one. Let us now create a space for them to come into by thinking of one of those heart shaped cake pans that they use to make cakes for valentines day. Lol. Think about having this on your chest sunken in to your body going in. Now think about his heart shaped cake pan sticking out on his chest. Your heart is an indent. His heart sticks out. Now think about his heart shaped cake pan being magnetically attracted to and fitting right into your heart shaped cake pan space. His sticking out heart is going to zoom in and fit right into your indented heart space. For Twin Flames that are not male female you will need to adapt this to your particular style of love relationship. So now you are creating an awesome feeling. If you are not feeling absolutely fantastic and awesome in your whole entire chest area and all the way up your galactic chord to the god head, universe or whatever you like to call it and all way down your body to mother earth then go back and start again. This is 5D love this is where you find your Twin Flame. Hang out in this area often. Come here everyday and enjoy your Twin Flame. Manifest from here. Once you are in this heart space you are feeling this love from them and the rest of the universe too. Own this love this awesome feeling in your chest in your entire body right now that’s real 5D love. You are not going to get that in any 3D relationship where he forgot to pick you up or left his dirty towel on the floor and now you are mad at him and tell all your friends and family he’s a jerk. It’s not going to happen. So hangout now in the 5D with him. You can do it in the morning at bedtime and when you go about your day. Try it as you go about your 3D life if you still have one. Try and keep this love feeling as much as possible in your heart space and let it envelope your entire body too. You can still go shoping get your groceries and maintain your thoughts or intuit through your heart rather than through your mind. Blessings of Twin Flame love for you. For help with this Twin Flame love lesson and many more consider having a love coaching session with me. 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TO TWIN FLAMES EVERYWHERE
If you are not together in the physical world practice LOVING them in the 5D. If You need to, pull your thoughts out of your head and start thinking or rather intuiting thru your Heart Space. Spend at least a part of every day there feeling Deep Love for yourself and Gratitude for your own Beauty. Then they will be there in Your Heart Space with You! Speak to them with and through Love. It is OK to let them know what you want your time together to be like. Use only the positive tense and words. Never criticize or blame. Only visualize perfection between You and Your Twin Flame Love. Healing , Harmony, Joy, Peace and Happiness for Eternity. Learn More Here ©I AM Jenifer 2016 – Feel free to reprint or quote from my article in whole or part with credit to www.mytwinflamelove.com
THE BIGGEST MYTH ABOUT TWIN FLAMES
There is a Big Myth out there amongst separated Twin Flames and I believe that the basis of this Myth and the way that it has been unknowingly perpetrated has been through Spiritual Practitioners that are not personally walking the Twin Flame path. I have been hearing about this over and over again, from separated Twins that think it’s the truth because it was told to them by some Spiritual practitioner. I would like to caution all Twin Flames to seek Twin Flame relationship advice only from Twin Flame Coaches. Spiritual practitioners who are not walking the Twin Flame path although well meaning just are not aware of the connection that Twin Flames have to each other. It is also best not to seek advice from friends or family unless they are in a Twin Flame relationship, otherwise they have no idea what you are going through. I must also caution you not to take traditional relationship advice for your Twin Flame Journey as it doesn’t even apply. Forget all the “Rules” that you have been taught about dating and mating. Twin Flames are above all that because they are a Spiritual experience. So what is the “Biggest Myth About Twin Flames” felt by some Spiritual practitioners and told to a lot of separated Twin Flames? It is the “Free Will Non-Interference” myth. That’s right a lot of separated Twin Flames will tell you that “they had to let their Twin Flame go” or “they were advised to cut the chords to their Twin so they themselves could progress Spiritually” or “there is nothing that can be done for their Twin” or “we are not allowed to interfere, right?”. WRONG. What we all have to realize here is that there is a big difference between interfering with others that we are not personally connected to and helping our Twin Flame up the spiritual ladder. I feel you can and should help your Twin Flame to “Clear” dark energies that are holding them back because you are aware of them and you can! Just the same as you wouldn’t let a toddler stick their hand on a hot burner helping your Twin Flame to clear obstructions and chains that are imprisoning them and holding back their Spiritual progress is the right thing to do. Remember as the other half of Your Soul they share an Energy field with you and their Soul will allow this. After all the basis of the Twin Flame Mission is to help each other heal and then heal the planet. It is a lot easier to get started on this if you are not letting your Twin Flame run away from you. Now I know that you are probably thinking you didn’t let them run away, they just did, but think about this for a minute. Everything that you have said, felt or thought about them and their behaviour they have heard, felt or thought on some level because they are your Twin. They are getting the messages energetically from you although it may be a little garbled depending on their Spiritual level. What is the message that you are sending to that long, lost, lovely Twin of yours? Is it something that he/she is going to want to come home too? Or have your words, feelings and thoughts about them been pushing them farther away? Remember that Twin Flame Relationships are God given and as such carry a Spiritual purpose for you both. I AM finding that the majority of the women have the need to learn patience and compassion as their life lesson. These relationships take time to build and are not usually done on your timetable. They are not about you they are about both of you. Shift your focus now from what you can get out of this relationship to what can you give to this relationship? I bet that some of you will feel a big shift just by reading and thinking about that. So what can you give to your Twin Flame especially the separated Twin that will have them want to turn around and come back? Notice I said “have them want” not make them. There is a big difference. Beware of the 3D relationship advice that is all about making them do what you want by playing games with them or creating Drama. That is a violation of their “Free Will” for sure! Try this instead. Give your Twin Flame a change of message. Change the message to Unconditional Love for them. Send them Unconditional Love through your Heart Chakra with no thought of return. No hidden agenda. Just send them Unconditional Love and lots of it for the pure pleasure of giving Love. Let me know what comes up for you. How that makes you feel? For those of you that would like more information about Twin Flame Love Coaching please click on the link below: More Information Thank you for reading my Blog. Please Share. I AM Jenifer and You are so Awesome. ©I AM Jenifer 2016 – Feel free to reprint or quote from my article in whole or part with credit to www.mytwinflamelove.com
Don’t Hold Back Your Romance, Twin Flames!
DON’T HOLD BACK YOUR ROMANCE TWIN FLAMES The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines ROMANCE as – an emotional attraction or aura belonging to an especially heroic era, adventure, or activity. Wow that sounds like Twin Flames to ME! Some may feel the Twin Flame experience is not a romantic relationship and I can agree with them in part but if you are longing for romance that doesn’t mean that you are not a Twin Flame or that you can’t have romance in a Twin Flame relationship. What I take it to mean and what’s worked for me is really embracing the new 5D template of love based on friendship, unconditional love, freedom, peace, balance and equality between Men and Women and realizing the Fairy Tale of 3D love is probably not what we will find in a Twin Flame Relationship. But that a new type of romance can be created with some Twin Flames by finding romance in non-traditional or non–Fairy Tale ways. As long as you are not basing your Twin Flame relationship around the expectation of “getting” 3D romantic love from your Twin and you realise that being a Twin Flame is more about your Mission, being a Way Shower and Working In Service to the planet, I believe you can still find the romance that you are seeking. Romance and the seeking of romance may be how some of us initially stumble upon the Twin Flame Journey. I know that’s how it happened for me. Life and love is only what you make of it. You can be a Twin Flame and still be romantic. If your Twin is romantic too or some of your romance rubs off on them that’s great. But it is best not to have expectations of getting romance from them. Like Self Love it should be something we do for ourselves. Male or female you can plan romantic dates, decorate your home in a romantic way especially the bedroom, speak romantic words and think romantic thoughts, dress in a romantic way, etc. There are no written in stone laws when it comes to Twin Flames in 5D love relationships, at least not that I know of. How ever there is a caveat to this…in some cases the Twin Flames by pre-arrangement are not meant to be in that kind of relationship. Even so you can still romance yourself as you find your balance on your Twin Flame Journey. I feel it is best to drop all expectations of having someone else provide for us what we want or need. We should always take that upon ourselves and when we have what we need and want then our Twin may or may not want to enjoy that with us. Romance doesn’t have to be co-dependent. If you are a romantic Twin Flame even walking across a crowded parking lot you can seek out romance in the moment. Is the moon beautiful? Are the stars out? If not, are the clouds spectacular? Are you holding hands with your Twin Flame? Are you vibrating at the frequency of Love? Are your thoughts on Love and romance? Are you grounded and in your Heart Space? Now is a good time to be letting go of the old patterns that haven’t served us and moving into what does. Be in the moment, Be Love, Be in Love, Be Loving, You are Love. Be Grateful. These thoughts and feelings will speed up the progress of your Twin Flame Union and your ascension. For more help and guidance on the Twin Flame Journey you may want to consider a Private Twin Flame Love Coaching session with me. Blessings of Twin Flame Love for you. Please click on the following link to learn more about Twin Flame Love Coaching. http://mytwinflamelove.com/coaching-services/ Thank you for reading my blog. Please Share. I AM Jenifer and You are so Awesome. ©I AM Jenifer 2016 – Feel free to reprint or quote from my article in whole or part with credit to www.mytwinflamelove.com
Let’s talk About Self-Love
Let’s Talk About Self Love. You may of already heard about self-love but, were not quite sure what it was or how to do it. The term “self-Love”, refers to how we treat our very best friend, ourselves. Start the most magnificent love affair of all time right now with someone that will always be by your side, someone that will never leave you, YOURSELF. For you can LOVE, Love, Love yourself and you will always get all of that love back. Ok, so now you might be asking “why would I want to love myself?” Loving yourself will bring you, your Beloved, and the entire planet more benefits than you can possibly imagine. The Earth currently is in short supply of Love and we all need to do our part to change that. Love is a multiplier. When people see or feel Love they get more Love and become more Love. Look at these pictures for the proof of this. So let’s start practicing this with ourselves. Let’s get really good at Loving. In fact lets become experts in Love and Loving. For those of you that might be anything from a little “shy” to downright “afraid” of loving because you got your heart ripped out of your chest in a previous Love affair or a previous life, this works wonders. We start the process with forgiving ourselves and all others for all the little and all the BIG things that are taking up space in your mind. Kick those thoughts out. That is your mind and they have to go. Go ahead, start now. Oh, and once you start don’t stop. Those thoughts and how we speak to ourselves is called our “self-talk” and is a HUGE part of our self-love. If you haven’t already, start to monitor your self-talk now. Don’t allow it to say one more negative word about your lover, your best friend in the whole world, Yourself. From now on be sure to only say nice things to yourself. Now this is a real important part of the practice, if you catch yourself saying anything that isn’t absolutely magnificent in your self-talk, no beating Yourself up. Rather, treat this as an opportunity to practice your “forgiving”. Just say “I AM forgiving myself for saying that” and then spend a few minutes saying nice things about some of your best qualities. When you can easily see the good things about yourself and learn to accept and love the things that you currently think aren’t, you will have what is called Unconditional Self Love. When you can Love yourself, you make it so much easier for others to Love You too. That is the goal. ©I AM Jenifer 2016 – Feel free to reprint or quote from my article in whole or part with credit to www.mytwinflamelove.com