DON’T FALL INTO THE MASCULINE TRAP
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As a woman ON THE JOURNEY OF becoming your Divine Feminine self, you may sometimes encounter Men OR YOUR MAN who seem more feminine than you.
Despite you showing up with love, warmth, softness, and an open heart, (or at least your best version of this) you may find that he’s not asking questions or leading the conversation or relationship forward.
In these situations, be very careful not to fall into the trap of trying to step in for him and make things happen.
Because here’s the thing, your feminine energy is not about leading, controlling, or manipulating the situation.
Your Feminine energy is about being present, observing, and allowing the natural energy dynamic to unfold.
Your feminine energy is the quality of connection you have to your own heart. It allows you to observe who a man naturally is, rather than trying TO MAKE HIM INTO SOMEONE SLIGHTLY DIFFERENT OR to make something happen.
While your feminine energy may inspire some men to lead and move things forward, with your man, you may notice he is being passive.
And you feel like if you don’t lead and ask the questions, the conversation or relationship may simply fizzle out.
But don’t fall into the trap of trying to step in for him and make things happen because that is you being Masculine.
The solution is to be more Feminine because when we are being feminine and choose to stay in our Divine Feminine Glory, we provide the energetic space to bring out the King in a man.
Just by being in our feminine, the divine feminine glory we can inspire a man to step into his masculine and lead with strength, wisdom, and compassion.
My suggestion is to give your man enough space to figure it out himself.
While you go more deeply into your feminine energy holding the vibration of acceptance for him and where he is at on his journey.
This is called King Making and allows a man the time and space he needs to gravitate toward Masculine Energy.
This is not Separation but rather PREPARATION because When a man is truly in his masculine, he will go after what he wants.
Here is another twin flame blog that I wrote many years ago about what to give the twin flame runner https://mytwinflamelove.com/3-gifts-that-are-sure-to-bring-your-twin-flame-runner-back/
Of course, this requires that you be deeply connected to your heart and intuition enough to notice the subtle energy dynamics of the conversation and or the relationship.
Remember that just because a man may be driven, alpha, and masculine in his career, it doesn’t necessarily mean he’ll show up in the same way in his dating life.
And in fact, the Alpha Male is NOT what we are looking for as our Divine Love partner anyways.
It is the King archetype that is the ultimate Divine Masculine whom we want to have that Deep Spiritual Love relationship with.
When we are being feminine and choose to stay in all our Divine Feminine Glory, we provide the energetic space to bring out the King in a man. Just by being in our feminine, we can inspire a man to step into his masculine and lead with strength, wisdom, and compassion.
This is not manipulation of any kind it is simply a natural opening that invites your Twin Flame deeper into the masculine energy of the King.
Remember that men need time and space to process their thoughts and feelings and formulate a plan of action. So give this to him as a gift.
It’s important to recognize that for a man to be in his masculine in relationships, it will require real emotional work just like what is needed for the Feminine.
Because if he doesn’t feel confident in who he is as a man and what he brings to the table, he simply may not be able to step into his masculine and lead. He may be struggling with his own fears of rejection and feelings of not-enoughness.
So trust the process and stay connected to your heart. By doing so, you can create a strong foundation for a lasting and loving relationship.
Remember, you have the power to inspire the King within him, to bring out his true masculine essence. So, Let your Divine Feminine Glory shine and create the energetic space for him to step up and lead with Deep Love and devotion.
Check out this link to a blog on the Divine Masculine https://divinelovealchemist.com/divine-masculine/
Be sure to check out the rest of my twin flame blog posts and compare them to your own twin flame relationship.
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